when your heart is broken and you don't know what to do about it, you google, "some piece of shit broke my heart what do i do?" i did that, and i didn't have much luck. i am hoping to change that.
it's especially hard to find any kind of resource for lesbians getting over a breakup. let's face it, lesbian relationships are intense. they are extremely intimate, open, comfortable... maybe a little too much. we become best friends with our girlfriends, share underwear, pluck each other's eyebrows, get our periods at the exact same second. our girlfriends become part of our identity, we can barely define ourselves without them.
and then suddenly one day she's gone, it's over. it's just you and the dog you adopted together. you and an underwear drawer full of both of your undies. you and your empty apartment, for the first time.
what now?
it has been 4 months and 13 days since my girlfriend dumped me. we were dating for nearly 3 years and living together. i did not see this coming.
i will take you through the ups and downs i've been through since then, give you tips on what to do and what you should definitely NOT do. i will, with your help, attempt to heal my heart and get over her. i will unbreak my own heart, toni-braxton style.
i am ready for this, and i hope you are too.
